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"几乎所有外国人都比较'排斥'中国人吃饭端起碗或盘子的习惯". Miss, how many 外国人 do you know? Do those "外国人" you know can represent "几乎所有外国人"? If your friends do really "排斥" "中国人吃饭端起碗或盘子的习惯", their heads have problem. Miss, when your friends say those, do you use your head? After I read your article, I called two of my 外国人 friends and asked them, they don't think as your friends do. They respect our culture and differences. They are taught not to hold bowl up when they drink soup or broth since they are kids, whereas, my chopsticks would be hit if I didn't hold my bowl when i was little and was scolded that was not polite. Which way is better or right? I did some experiments: drinking broth without holding and bringing the bowl up close to my mouth, the broth drip back into the bowl and splash onto the table. Now I want you to try to eat rice from your bowl with your chopsticks without bringing up your bowl, and grasp vegetable from another big bowl or dish and direct to your mouth, what it would like? Miss, remember, half of chinese eat rice, and a lot of them eat nuddle (long and dangling and dripping). try to eat them like a white, and see what it look like? which way is better or more civilized? All different races and ethnicities have there own values, beliefs, customs and their rationales to act in a certain way. There's no bad and good or wright and wrong issues. Your friend need to learn to respect other culture. And you too, you need to identify your own values and beleif and you need to learn to respect yourself but not just copy others and label different as bad or ugly. May have grammer or spelling mistake, hope you guys can help to point out. Thank you |
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