I don't understand why your husband ask you to give up the opportunity of this precious 36000 opportunity. Working with two legs for one family will definitely be much better than one. Even though your husband has nothing yet to support the family.
And to be frankly, Everything in Canada is running under some quite different rules. I don't want to assess it is right or not. But how are you going to fit yourself in and adpate the style here is very important to your family.
You don't like it, refuse to play with it follow the rule, you lose the game. The other way, change your mind, put all your historical
glory behind your back and move forward firmly and slowly. you will find something different.
Get a job within 3 months has already proved yourself quite a lot. It cost me 8 months to get my first one here. But I never regrets to be here. I start to know who I am and what I need.
And be awared that there is no where is perfect, the only thing is
where you like a little bit more, make your mind, stay and enjoy or go back. either way is good.
Some "strange" situation here:
1. The most successful (in terms of salary) classmate I have here is the most peculiar personnel believed during our university time
2. Personallty sometime may even more important than skills
3. Degree not always respceted in Canada ( I hate to write this one, but I have to)
4. Whatever rules applied to common people all over world are even better developed and being used here (Flattering, Appreciation, Gift to your boss, smoke and beer with colleagues, etc)
... ...
Anyway, like the last sentence of the "Gone With The Wind":
Tormorrow will be a different new day for anyone. |
楼主: 人在异乡
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发表于 2004-6-30 13:27:58
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