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I was born in GuangZhou, China. As many of you know, GuangZhou is a big city, and many people from different parts of China are working and living in GuangZhou.
After a few times vistits, and chatting with my mother who is still there, i can tell you the followings:
1. A girl in GuangZhou with high education and good moral can not find husband easily. Men will not appreciate the good attitude, but rather, like women easy to be "Control" /"manage".
While in Canada, a high education girl can date any kinds of men she chose. A doctor marrying a bus driver is normal here.
2.A divorced woman in GuangZhou is looked down by the people around her. A woman who chose to marry later than 35 will also be looked down. It is very unfair to women there.
While in Canada, a woman can choose any kind of life styles. And usually no one will step into her privacy.
3. Local GuangZhou Men are not independent. They live with their father and mother after 25. After marriage, the husband's mother can step into the couple's privacy and decision making, while you will not see that often in Canada.
4. in GuangZhou, Men can have sex outside marriage; can have girl friends outside marriage; can be nice enough to have only internet partners outside marriage... Many men do not know how to respect his marriage and his wife, while wifes are requried to tolerate.
I personelly belived that a woman find it easier to breath in Toronto than in GuangZhou China.
And, I think this is a good article. |
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