就成立调解公司梦于明涛答网友记者问(第2集)

小浣熊3946

签保险单绝不是稀里糊涂的事。

哪块云彩有雨谁也说不准。

有备无患。

learnerforever

I am just not a person who easily find comfort in spotlight. I know what I do know. But I simply cannot pretend knowing what I don't. I am LEARNERFOREVER, because I am learning all the time and from everybody I come across in the path of my life. Again this is Yu Ming Tao, who has reluctantly exposed himself to the spotlight of 51.ca. As 西西里岛君 rightly alluded, my instinct tends to direct me to find a darker spot to hide myself.

For those who hasn't read my earlier post on the An Gang issue, I need to apologize again for my lack of complete comtetence of speedy writing in the Chinese language. This is why I am here writing again in the language of our adopted land.

I am actually rather gratified and overwhelmed by the response from people on the forum. I am also very humbled by a lot of comments I have read so far.  Positive or negative, I know who I am, and I know what I am capable of doing. I am fully aware of the fact that I am not a lawyer. And I do not pretend to be one. I only saw a part that I could play in making some people's lives better in our community, and I wanted to try it out to see if I could make it work both for those I wish to help and for myself as well.  I will take one small step at a time. No big splashes.

I am hoping that I have not,  through the loudspeaker of the website, given people any false impression about who I am and what I am able to do. I can't do everything, because there are a lot of things that I don't know. So I can't make any more promises than I have alreay done. What I can promise is that I will only learn more as I go.  Therefore, I do beg everyone here not to have too high an expectation on me. I see myself as a beginner, a beginner in something that no one in our community has the interest or incentive to touch. If this experiment works out, I will need more people to join me so that we can make the dream much bigger. If I don't, I am only sacrificing myself, which I am pretty happy to do any way.

Lastly, I am not trying to make a presentation here at all. I am only telling a small part of my story from the heart.

Good night

xpxpxpx p

最初由[learnerforever]发布
关于安钢事件的一点看法

I am very impressed with the passion among the folks on the site in trying to help An Gang in the aftermath of his tragedy. However, I am very sorry to say that there is limit what we could do to help in this situation. The following is my take on the issue, I welcome feedback from everyone.

Insurance Policy is a commercial contract, with very precise specifications in its terms, conditions and value of the policy. If Mr. An Gang had choosen a particular individual as the beneficiary when the policy was purchased. This individual will be receiving full payment of the policy's value.  There is nothing anybody can do at this moment to change this. This is a non-disputable, clearly defined, legally binding contract that the insurance company has to pay out to the designated beneficiary unless fraud, or foul play is suspected.  

Therefore, this is a very straight forward matter; and there will be no dispute at all as far as this insurance policy is concerned. When there is no dispute, there will be no need for any legal action, because the law will respect the contract as a valid and legal contract.  Mediation will be of little use because the parties involved do not have any legally conflicting or overlapping interests.  To put in a simpler words, unless his wife has a struck of good conscience, she is not obligated to share the compensation money with An's son, or anybody else. It is hers to keep. Straight and simple.  Well, when morality runs into legality, the latter always prevails. This is the drawbacks of a legalized society.

I apologize that I have to write in English, as this allows me to write a lot more faster than in Chinese. This is unfortunately a fact that I have shamefully reconciled with myself. I do hope that everybody understands my writing. Call me if you need any explanations.

This is pretty much one of the best I've ever seen at 51. The rationale is convincing and clearly explains the "why", no to mention the impressive writing skill. I am personally almost convienced that he is the one who deserves my time and money when I need some help one day (hope not -- knock the wood).

Well done!

xpxpxpx p

最初由[learnerforever]发布
Part of my story from the heart...

I am just not a person who easily find comfort in spotlight. I know what I do know. But I simply cannot pretend knowing what I don't. I am LEARNERFOREVER, because I am learning all the time and from everybody I come across in the path of my life. Again this is Yu Ming Tao, who has reluctantly exposed himself to the spotlight of 51.ca. As 西西里岛君 rightly alluded, my instinct tends to direct me to find a darker spot to hide myself.

For those who hasn't read my earlier post on the An Gang issue, I need to apologize again for my lack of complete comtetence of speedy writing in the Chinese language. This is why I am here writing again in the language of our adopted land.

I am actually rather gratified and overwhelmed by the response from people on the forum. I am also very humbled by a lot of comments I have read so far.  Positive or negative, I know who I am, and I know what I am capable of doing. I am fully aware of the fact that I am not a lawyer. And I do not pretend to be one. I only saw a part that I could play in making some people's lives better in our community, and I wanted to try it out to see if I could make it work both for those I wish to help and for myself as well.  I will take one small step at a time. No big splashes.

I am hoping that I have not,  through the loudspeaker of the website, given people any false impression about who I am and what I am able to do. I can't do everything, because there are a lot of things that I don't know. So I can't make any more promises than I have alreay done. What I can promise is that I will only learn more as I go.  Therefore, I do beg everyone here not to have too high an expectation on me. I see myself as a beginner, a beginner in something no one in our community has the interest or incentive to touch. If this experiment works out, I will need more people to join me so that we can make the dream much bigger. If I don't, I am only sacrificing myself, which I am pretty happy to do any way.

Lastly, I am not trying to make a presentation here at all. I am only telling part of my story from my heart.

Good night

I just got an idea, Mr. Yu, could you please consider accepting my invitation for an "off-line" interview?

I am not a pro per say. However, I do admire your terrific English skill, talented idea and vigorous attempt to pursue a more meaningful life. As you nick name implied, learner for ever, I'd like to be a lifelong learner as well.

So, if you don't mind, I will tape my questions in English and put it on one website so that you will be able to hear that. Then, as your response and even formal presentation, you can do the same thing, i.e. posting your audio/video file on the same website.

The following is one sample. Hope you like this idea.

Thanks


Xpxpxpx p 给铁木儿/梦工作室的邀请
近日来，由于我对“梦工作室”的质疑，51上的网友陷入了激烈的争论，我本人对此深感不安。

下面就是本人今天赶制的录音，诚恳邀请“梦工作室”网友以相同方式给与回应。

我的录音文件（Invitation to DreamWork）贴在下面，大家可以直接点击“Play”按钮，或者“Download”来收听。

http://xpxpxpxp.podOmatic.com  




下面的网站可以上载录音文件：

http://www.podomatic.com  

如果是影音文件的话，可以直接上载到 YOUTUBE.COM

learnerforever

Hello XP,
Thanks a lot for your kindly compliment. I do feel very flattered in deed.

This may appear that we are patting each other on the backs. But both your written and spoken language are very impressive...  Absolutely one of best from someone of our mutual origin... Ok, enough said...

I do like your idea. I think I will go along with your questions, just hopefully they are not going to make me more embarrassed than I am alreay now.  Only one condition, you got to be a bit patient with me, as I am not a tech savvy person at all. Even took me a while yesterday just to figure out how to post a message here on this forum.

Looking forward to your questions...

最初由[xpxpxpx p]发布
回复：Part of my story from the heart...



I just got an idea, Mr. Yu, could you please consider accepting my invitation for an "off-line" interview?

I am not a pro per say. However, I do admire your terrific English skill, talented idea and vigorous attempt to pursue a more meaningful life. As you nick name implied, learner for ever, I'd like to be a lifelong learner as well.

So, if you don't mind, I will tape my questions in English and put it on one website so that you will be able to hear that. Then, as your response and even formal presentation, you can do the same thing, i.e. posting your audio/video file on the same website.

The following is one sample. Hope you like this idea.

Thanks


Xpxpxpx p 给铁木儿/梦工作室的邀请
近日来，由于我对“梦工作室”的质疑，51上的网友陷入了激烈的争论，我本人对此深感不安。

下面就是本人今天赶制的录音，诚恳邀请“梦工作室”网友以相同方式给与回应。

我的录音文件（Invitation to DreamWork）贴在下面，大家可以直接点击“Play”按钮，或者“Download”来收听。

http://xpxpxpxp.podOmatic.com  




下面的网站可以上载录音文件：

http://www.podomatic.com  

如果是影音文件的话，可以直接上载到 YOUTUBE.COM

xpxpxpx p

Wow...

OK, enough said.

I will definitly get it ready asap. Meanwhile, I will send you some tips to use that website.

Good luck, and good night!

learnerforever

Good night to you, too.

玫瑰香水

我一远房朋友（就是朋友的朋友） 他在volvo那里买新车，说是几天内到货 拖了一个多月才到货 拿车就发现车有问题 告之 修好明天来拿 朋友当时就不太痛快 第2天 拿车 还是老问题 拿回dealer 那里 干脆直接告诉他 修不好 给你换一辆， 过几个星期 换了新车还是同样的问题。 最后 和dealer的老板谈了才愿意退钱。 但我朋友更不满意的是对方犹太sales的态度很恶劣，（老板是中国人 但老板是最后才出现接洽的 之前都是和这个犹太人接触） 一开始是怀疑朋友把车弄坏 后来满不在乎的说 “你要么等我给你换车 要么这里随便挑一部车开走” 所以朋友更希望得到dealer 方的就服务态度作出道歉。但对方拒绝。其实这在国内 是挺正常的 但这里加拿大 或许文化 惯例不同 思维方式也不同

您看这怎么处理？

或者您给我们说说 买车 （新车/二手/私人过户）的经验吧