I agree with “实际上成功和快乐完全是两码事”.
Some people look for happiness no matter if they are rich or not, so people are not happy no matter how much money they have.
Plus, how do you define 'success'? There is no such a unique standard of success. I believe many people measure it by how much money a person has, but that is not the standard at all. Actually, happyniess can be used as one of the standard.
- I will not consider a person succesful if he/she is not happy, and I don't care how rich he/she is.
- If a person is rich and happy, then he/she is successful.
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楼主转的文章的立论基础可能是不太牢固的。这立论基础是:“实际上成功和快乐完全是两码事”。成功和快乐可能不完全是两码事。一个没有取得过成功的人想来是不会快乐的。
- How do you define the success here? How do you know they are not happy. Just by guessing?
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没有人喜欢失败,因为失败导致挫折感:失败是一个人的愿望没有实现的一个事实状态,它会让一个原本快乐的人失去快乐。所以成功是重要的,成功可以让一个原本失意的人变的快乐。
- How can you make only two ways of life, either success or failure? Can people live a quite life, not so much success, and not so much failure too? Or succeed on one hand, and fail on the other?
- You are not them, how do you know everybody is pursuing the same thing as you do?
Bottom line, everybody has different goals, different ways of thinking. It is not a simple questions you can generalize. |