过去很多毋庸置疑的东西,原来是可以质疑的。人生原来可以有无数的活法。记得有次老公对我说,“You can do anything, go anywhere. Just think about 'What do you want to do?'”一下子把我说愣了。
面临Unlimited Options,我反倒感到迷茫起来,因为我从来没有question过自己的人生模式:上学、工作、买房、买车(Mortgage)、假期出去旅游、退休。老公摇摇头,说那只是大多数人的活法。“Use your head and be creative”。我更是惊讶于他的用词,要活得Creative!
不过,经过了3年的思考和experiment,尽管我的“如何活着”的计划还未成熟,但已经有些眉目。最好的是我们可以随时改变计划,或者说没有计划,只有方向。Be happy, be healthy and be creative!
就近而言,我老公的母亲50岁上大学,获得了心理学学士和硕士学位。现在是个很不错的心理咨询专家,病人很多;
I really worried your mother would fool those people. nevertheless, those people who believe your mother would be more stupid I guess. if anybody read several paper then can be a qualified psychitrist (doctor) don't throw at me, I will down myself.
Great move. You really get something from living here. What is next? I wish you would think what we can do something and turn our back home some ELITE to take some action, which eventally leading our people can enjoy what we get here.
By the way. Dear 已有小成. How do you know her 老公的母亲 doesn't have the talent to be what she is now? Plus, she is now. In my view, you already put yourself in "stupid" position by judging something you know nothing about.
1. you do need to know someone to locate a job, to find a good doctor, etc. did you read news of hydroOne ontario, hydroone Qc, of the scandle? Freedom is very limited to the one who's identity is bare Canadian.
2. Education in Canada is under 'privatization' process and cost more than American's, esp. in the field of medical, law, engineering.
3. 'Money is the God' is more pupolar than ever to lot of Canadian's.
4. Canada is changing dynamically and quickly -- toward Money dominated modern society. Everything is changing.
One example is: Canadian normally don't call other person's name- cursing for disbute. Now, we can read 'stupid' etc all over the place - thanks for our new comes.