地产周刊：移民之后你准备生几个孩子

团结才有力量

这篇文章关于生孩子的见解非常好.

其实移民加拿大再生孩子的原因不外以下几个:

-靠孩子吃补助.
-摆脱了中国的计划生育政策,有一种如释重负之感,不生二胎白不生.
-再者, 第一胎是女孩的,想生个男孩(虽然这样的概率不高);生了男孩的,还想要个女孩.


话说回来, 加拿大既没有规定生孩子的上限,也没有规定下限.所以生有生的道理,不生有不生的道理.

soda

有时街上看到有两个孩子,一个十几,一个还不会走路

sunny2008

最初由[soda]发布
年岁别差太多就行

有时街上看到有两个孩子,一个十几,一个还不会走路

7、8岁的孩子是喜欢小孩子，十几岁的孩子，你和他商量生小BABY，他都不会同意。

两个孩子的年龄不要差太多呦！

funnysummer

非常同意作者的观点，这些靠别人纳的税养孩子的人不仅无法提供良好的成长和学习环境给孩子，当父母的本身也没有独立的事业，人格和生活，天天围着孩子转了,哪里有时间塑造自己。明明就是社会的寄生虫，还要摆出劳苦功高的样子。。。
只有一个小的观点我不大同意：“因为我们是70年代末或80年代初中国的第一批独生子女，从小就受够了孤单的滋味，“ 独生子女不一定孤独，我和很多同学都是独生子女，可是从不觉得孤独，因为我们有很多朋友，反而我们在家里有独处的空间和独享的资源，更有利于学习和思考。而且习惯了一个人拿主意，所以很独立。父母因为只养一个孩子负担轻，他们也有快乐优越的人生。

canadafreeword

"这些靠别人纳的税养孩子的人不仅无法提供良好的成长和学习环境给孩子，当父母的本身也没有独立的事业，人格和生活，天天围着孩子转了,哪里有时间塑造自己。明明就是社会的寄生虫，还要摆出劳苦功高的样子。。。"

要真的爱孩子就应该为他们创造好的/高质量的生活, 不是吃饱就行了, 要不然和普通动物有什么区别?

不平_则鸣

不一定吧!
不少十多岁一点的孩子看到别人有兄弟姐妹, 羡慕的很! 巴不得再有一个BABY呢. 老大十多岁还可帮忙带老二, 多好!

最初由[sunny2008]发布
回复：年岁别差太多就行



7、8岁的孩子是喜欢小孩子，十几岁的孩子，你和他商量生小BABY，他都不会同意。

两个孩子的年龄不要差太多呦！

sunny2008

最初由[不平_则鸣]发布
回复：回复：年岁别差太多就行

不一定吧!
不少十多岁一点的孩子看到别人有兄弟姐妹, 羡慕的很! 巴不得再有一个BABY呢. 老大十多岁还可帮忙带老二, 多好!



十多岁还好，年龄再差的多点，又不是连续生的，老公都会觉得孩子不会聪明。

舌战群猪

是到了检讨移民政策的时候了，否则一些素质低略的技术移民，过来后几年内都没什么像样的工作，却一心想多生孩子，多拿社会福利，尽可能不劳而获地捞取其他纳税人的利益，这肯定不是移民政策的初衷。且这样的家庭越来越多。
有本事生就要有本事养。没有经济能力，靠着可怜的补助把孩子猪狗般地养大，甚至有的厚着脸皮拿自己年迈的父母当免费劳动力使用，典型的移民垃圾+社会蛀虫。极度鄙视！！！

独立意志

momandson

some people just have one kid, but still can not well support that kid either.         

the author and people who have the same opinion, please respect others, i can say that lady who has 6 kids is very strong person. it is very hard to take care of the babies.

i and my husband have our profesional jobs, our income is more than 150,000 per year, and we really want 3 babies. however, we find it is too hard to have them----from pregnacy to deliver the baby, to nursing .....well , so many works need to do.   therefore, we decide to just have one. i really respect and try to encourage those people who want more babies..  if you have ever had a baby, i bet you can know this:  it is every emotional and need mental support even just from the begining/ pregnacy...am i right?

olduncle

Can't agree more with momandson!

I would say, the lady has 6 kids is an excellent mother! If you are a parent, you may know how tough to take care of kids.

Please don't assume that she doesn't have pressure. She just did not tell you. As a mother of 6 kids without stable income, life is very hard for her. But, i can see that she has a optimal thinking can overcome those presures and survive! Don't you think she is much better than those persons keep complaining
but do nothing? Don't you agree that she has a stronger mind than those suicided and left over their kids?

Please please don't put more burdens to this kind of parents. I believe they want to have better jobs and better lives and, of course better lives for their kids. But, they are just immegrants, here is Canada, they are just trying hard to survive in the new country.

And, of course, I believe they are thankful to those paying tax every year which support their lives and giving an equal opportunity to their kids to grow up and be educated.

Thanks.

最初由[momandson]发布
some people just have one kid, but still can not well support that kid either.         

the author and people who have the same opinion, please respect others, i can say that lady who has 6 kids is very strong person. it is very hard to take care of the babies.

i and my husband have our profesional jobs, our income is more than 150,000 per year, and we really want 3 babies. however, we find it is too hard to have them----from pregnacy to deliver the baby, to nursing .....well , so many works need to do.   therefore, we decide to just have one. i really respect and try to encourage those people who want more babies..  if you have ever had a baby, i bet you can know this:  it is every emotional and need mental support even just from the begining/ pregnacy...am i right?

olduncle

Canada provides equal opportunities to the kids to be educated.
What means high quality life? Did we grow up with lots of milk and eggs and big houses? I was born in 1970's, so I don't think a so called high quality life leads to success. Parents play a significant role in developping kids. I believe the kids growing up with such a strong mother will have a brilliant future.

Please complain about those officers who purge our money to buy cars/trips for themselves. Be kind and give more supports to those persons who need helps.

Thanks,
最初由[canadafreeword]发布
非常同意作者的观点和4楼的想法

"这些靠别人纳的税养孩子的人不仅无法提供良好的成长和学习环境给孩子，当父母的本身也没有独立的事业，人格和生活，天天围着孩子转了,哪里有时间塑造自己。明明就是社会的寄生虫，还要摆出劳苦功高的样子。。。"

要真的爱孩子就应该为他们创造好的/高质量的生活, 不是吃饱就行了, 要不然和普通动物有什么区别?

zero

两个就好啦！！

劝君更进一杯酒

作者是个典型的自以为是的傻瓜38！
一个人生孩子本身就是为社会做出了贡献！
为什么这里的大多数人不愿意生孩子？还不是因为生孩子养孩子太苦太累吗？
你以为你交的那点税了不起啊？跟培养一个孩子长大比起来，付出的辛苦相差十万八千里呢。
你要是眼馋人家拿福利金，你自己也生几个试试？怕是没那个本事吧？

xiandaiyu

其实我认为加拿大是很欢迎这种6个孩子的母亲移民的.政府需要移民的初衷本来就是为了弥补国内人口数量的不足,而且移来的人当然年龄越小越好,比如现在技术移民申请时间的延长和对留学生移民条件的放宽都说明了这一点.所以政府目前对有儿童家庭的福利政策补贴不是太多,而是太少了.因为我相信移民的第二代对国家和社会作出的贡献比他们的父母要大的多.