说实话,我是准备,卖掉房子,车子,辞去工作,回中国。
唯一担心的,是,我孩子不能适应中国的学校的学习。孩子都四年级了竟然加减乘除还没搞清楚,居然math 还是A+.
加拿大和美国唯一好处可能是绿化好。
这是我在美加生活工作五年,从广州移民的这里的亲身经历。
读一读这篇文章:加联邦亚太部长访华:广州、深圳的发展简直是看呆了眼
http://www.51.ca/news/shownews.php?s=&sitenewsid=2839
但你还是要让你的孩子来这里上大学!这里的大学是国内没办法比的。
值乎?不值乎?
说老实话鄙人未到加国,移民加国究竟值不值,不敢妄加评论,但是,我还是套用一句古话"成事在天,谋事在人",在同样的背景条件下,在相同的机遇面前,人的主观能动性是至关重要的.不是吗?就拿上个世纪六`七十年代中国的上山下乡来说,有脱颖而出千古流芳的,有消沉颓废混混噩噩的,有饱食终日无所用心的,也有顶着"白专"臭名挑灯攻读数理化ABC,也有交白卷反潮流的,各人的结局各有不同.我想,对已经走上"洋插队"或将要准备"洋插队"的新时代插兄们呈上几句:1.世上本没有路,走的人多了也就成了路.2.既来之,则安之.3.走自己的路,让别人去说吧!究竟值不值,应当由洋插们自己来回答. 值!当然值了!你选那一边?
在国内的人听到新移民在加拿大找不到工作,都认为那是人家没有本事,而他自己”可以走出一条路来“。每个人都是这么想的,包括那些现在在加拿大找不到工作的人当初也是这么想的。不会有例外。不信,这些人到加拿大一年以后,他的言论就会180转弯。(当然做体力活可以)。一边是优美的环境,教育体系,福利制度,但失业或者体力工作直到退休;
另一边是现成的电脑工程师或者其它“师“,但其它都比加拿大差的多(加拿大排名第三,中国排名第几?)你选那一边?
后悔
在加拿大不能干自己本专业的工作---后悔在国内有个幸福的家,在加拿大是孤身一人---后悔
在国内有房有车,在加拿大只有车---后悔
在国内有许多可以信任的朋友,这里没有---后悔
在国内可以看到社会在天天变,这里死气沉沉---后悔
为了美好的童景而来加拿大,一个也没有看到---后悔
。。。。。。
各位朋友:不要为后悔而来加拿大!!!
回复:后悔
最初由发布后悔
在加拿大不能干自己本专业的工作---后悔
在国内有个幸福的家,在加拿大是孤身一人---后悔
在国内有房有车,在加拿大只有车---后悔
在国内有许多可以信任的朋友,这里没有---后悔
在国内可以看到社会在天天变,这里死气沉沉---后悔
为了美好的童景而来加拿大,一个也没有看到---后悔
。。。。。。
各位朋友:不要为后悔而来加拿大!!!
来了就不要后悔。
这位老兄实在太消极!
专业工作?没有人禁止你干,干不了多反省自己的原因。语言?技术不接轨?
幸福的家?一家人一起创业,不幸福吗?稳定了可以接父母过来颐享天年,后悔什么?
有房有车?这里打labour的都买房了,你不买是你的问题。这里的房子,比国内好多了,居住环境也好多了。后悔什么?
我在这里交了很多新朋友,你为什么不?只要你真心,朋友到哪都有!后悔自己吧!
憧憬要靠自己努力来实现,天上不掉馅饼,就算中649也得花钱买呀!不知道你后悔啥!
怒其不争! 一言难尽
总的来说 ---- 值!
物质上,只要找到一份工作,应当是比国内强。
精神上,只要自己不悲观,应当说更加自由。
环境上,不言自明。
人生难免会有失意的时候,挺过去,一切都会好的。
想当年,为找工作,苦苦熬了8个月。终于皇天不负有心人。
实在不行,打工的日子总能过下去。
乐观,永不气馁。在哪儿都一样。
回复:回复:后悔
最初由[毛毛]发布回复:后悔
来了就不要后悔。
这位老兄实在太消极!
专业工作?没有人禁止你干,干不了多反省自己的原因。语言?技术不接轨?
幸福的家?一家人一起创业,不幸福吗?稳定了可以接父母过来颐享天年,后悔什么?
有房有车?这里打labour的都买房了,你不买是你的问题。这里的房子,比国内好多了,居住环境也好多了。后悔什么?
我在这里交了很多新朋友,你为什么不?只要你真心,朋友到哪都有!后悔自己吧!
憧憬要靠自己努力来实现,天上不掉馅饼,就算中649也得花钱买呀!不知道你后悔啥!
怒其不争!
这里的房子好吗?别误导了!
花了这么多钱买个木房子!! 值与不值,各人都有想法,可是看重的是你是否认为你过得充实,压力总会有点,你选择逃避还是面对?社会在进步,可你呢? 最初由发布
一言难尽
总的来说 ---- 值!
物质上,只要找到一份工作,应当是比国内强。
精神上,只要自己不悲观,应当说更加自由。
环境上,不言自明。
人生难免会有失意的时候,挺过去,一切都会好的。
想当年,为找工作,苦苦熬了8个月。终于皇天不负有心人。
实在不行,打工的日子总能过下去。
乐观,永不气馁。在哪儿都一样。
You can earn only less than $3000 in Canada if you do the best labor job, I don't think for a brilliant professional employee in a foreign invested company like IBM-China could earn less than above amount of money in China. In a word, if you couldn't find a professional job in Canada, you have no way to compare your income here with the one in China. Unforturenately, Canada immigrates too many new comers overseas just because there are too many labor jobs (bad-paid and hard, somethings dirty) that native Canadians are reluctant to do, not because there are many professional jobs that they could not find people to do.
Remember the above fact before your guys argue the good and bad aspects of Canada.
回复:回复:后悔
最初由[毛毛]发布回复:后悔
来了就不要后悔。
这位老兄实在太消极!
专业工作?没有人禁止你干,干不了多反省自己的原因。语言?技术不接轨?
幸福的家?一家人一起创业,不幸福吗?稳定了可以接父母过来颐享天年,后悔什么?
有房有车?这里打labour的都买房了,你不买是你的问题。这里的房子,比国内好多了,居住环境也好多了。后悔什么?
我在这里交了很多新朋友,你为什么不?只要你真心,朋友到哪都有!后悔自己吧!
憧憬要靠自己努力来实现,天上不掉馅饼,就算中649也得花钱买呀!不知道你后悔啥!
怒其不争!:O
Canada Dream
Life has no specific standard. Life has its own style, which is the way how you live, including language,food, dressing, entertainment, tradition, etc. That's how it compose of the culture. Different country, different race has its own culture. Canada is western culture, china is asian culture. Both base on totally different life style. Each life style aims happiness .Immigranting means moving out of your own country to another country. Obviously, it will be very hard from starting. Especially, for us - chinese, we have to not only fly cross the pacific ocean from geographical point but only cross into another culture - how you adapt to this huge new environmentfor chinese.
Most chinese feel upset since the first nite in canada. Why? because you lost your own life style , your own culture, which you probably live on 30 or even 40 years. On the other point, life like a tree, built on its root. Your life used to live on chinese tree root. Once you landed here, your life root eradicated by millions miles flying. The only thing left on your life tree is dream - Big Canada Dream . In this dream you wish air is clean, no pollution
big salary, good pension, free medical system. But all the above is just a dream, it's your idealized canada life to chinese.
However, for person whose teenage period is in china, he will have a hardship to let the dream perfectly.He doesen't involv this western culture 100%.He will lost a lot to get a barely little bit . Would you want to be a person, put your hope on your son? the age like you only 40 years old? Would you want to be a person, who lost watermelon and achieve sesame in his whole life. That's foolish!!!
If you are doing well in china, why you immgrant to another country, which you feel like a baby in this society? Life is not long , only a few decades. Think about it !!!
If you are not doing well in china, or if you are pursuing western life style, you should immigrant Canada.But you have to really payefforts to change yourself. Even at first, forget chinese in order to break through language obstales. How much you will pay how much you will get, like making deal in business. Probably it will go a long " battlefield" to get this deal. Does it worth to you ?
All in all, no body can really make criticals to judge that how much worth to come immgranting. Depending on how much you have happiness in you life already, how much happiness you still are looking forward toas well as what kind of life style you are pursuing.
回复:Canada Dream
最初由发布Canada Dream
Canada Dream? :confused:
What is a "Canada Dream"? I could only find "American dream" in the dictionary.
As lower income and higher tax, few people in Canada could get rich --> a millionaire. Canada don't encourage people to take risk to open their own companies in order to get rich quickly, it is something like a communism society -- no one deads of hunger and one one gets rich. I think 'Canadian Dream' means something different from 'American Dream'.
My Canadian Dream:
1. Better living environment, low pollution, nice people, fair society, fair competition, low crime and healthy. I think that is also the target of Canadian people.
2. Freedom. Too much meaning.
3. English. I always admire people who can speak fluent English. That’s one of my dreams.
4. Visit more places. Need support of item 2.
Can my dreams come true? I think they can!
我现在不想回国
我虽然后悔,认为来加拿大不值,但是我不想回国!!!来的时候是两个人,回去是一个人---丢人
来的时候口袋里还有点钱,回去的时候像一个要饭的---丢人
回去后,车子没有了,房子没有了,工作没有了---丢人
在加拿大没有干出个样就会去---丢人
当初是自己要来的,现在又后悔了---丢人
回去后会让家里人失望,让人看不起---丢人
.......
所以来了加拿大不管怎么样都要坚持下去---不回去丢人!!!