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I can understand you very well, my friend.
I guess your wife is a kind of person with a very strong personality. She doesn't understand you and she doesn't want to listen.
However, if you read all the comments here, you will find you are not alone. Your wife is not the only person. She is not unique.
There are all kinds of people in this world. They think they are smart but they actually don't understand what they are talking and they don't understand what you are talking. Very hard to communicate.
I am not blaming anybody here, including Hu's parents. Instead, I understand what they are suffering. That is why I don't want to see this same thing happens again.
Normally, we don't like talk to those who do not want to listen or have no capability of understanding what we are talking.
But I still want to recommend you keep talking to your wife. Women and men are different. Not just phasically. The minds are different. They think in different way. It is hard but worth trying. Don't give up.
Also remember, if you cannot reach an agreement with your wife, let it go. Don't argue with her. Most of the times, there is no right and wrong. Let her be right and you win the marriage.
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