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为挣脱中国桎梏踏上绝路 林俊来加寻真爱
本帖最后由 Gust101 于 2012-6-7 13:06 编辑
实录,曾经和一个人的对话:
“Why didn't you tell your wife, if she loves you as you say, she would understand and feel less betrayed. Don't you think she deserves to know the truth?”
"No, I can't do that. Divorce is messy, you know."
“Why did you want to marry her in the first place?”
(some babbling which does not make much sense, but actually reflected the common things that once happened to many closeted gays or lesbians who were compelled to marry the opposite sex and start a double life satuated with lies.)
“Then you are going to hide it from her for the whole life?”
"Yeah."
"If your son turned out to be gay and wanted to have a life with another male, will you support it?"
"Yeah, of course, if that's what he wants."
"But how about yourself?"
...(Basically, he gave up on the hope of love already.)
一个过去的时代,仅无形的偏见,可以迫使人去伪装到连诚实面对自己和家人的勇气都没有。有人说,最无懈可击的就是以你自己真实的样子生存。这么基本的东西,在现代人类里的许多地方仍然会显得奢侈。如果宽容,哪会有那么多的苟且和假装。 |
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