找工作遭遇无间道：折腾一个月回到原点

法官

当我们是新移民的时候，哪来这么多烦恼，随便有份十几块的工作就很高兴了。当我们赚的钱多了的时候，一切都变得这么岌岌可危，小心翼翼，思前想后。

唉，人哪，真的是很渺小，很无助，关键是互相之间还在倾轧！！
老赵老朋友 发表于 2011-5-5 10:09 http://bbs.51.ca/images/common/back.gif

有份几十块的工作时, 一切都可能变得这么小心翼翼，思前想后. 连谁当总理/省长/市长都跟你的收入有关了. 所以说穷乐呵是有道理的.

紫黄

文章不错，要不是说到“新爸”，我一直把作者当作一个女性。

Jstar

I am surprised that most of the comments missed the point. Director C has an obligation to the company to report that a key resource is planning to leave. The company will have to act accordingly. This happens very often in hi-tech companies. The problem with the author of this article is that he should not ask Director C to be his reference. Also, do not ask other people for reference before being requested by the new company you are applying to.

I had this experience long time ago. I asked an AVP who used to be my boss to be my reference and he did a very good reference for me. However, he came to me the next day and told me that he will inform my direct report that I am trying to leave the company. He told me that he has a duty to the company to take action. He said that he will allow one day for me to do it myself. He was and still is a good friend of mine,