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回复 18# Jstar
I don't like talking too much either, but I have to point out some differents opinion against you.
1. This article never mentioned that parents should mistreat their children. Definitely, I believe all kids get the necessary life support from their family even their parents are new immigrant who struggle for life. What this article want to tell kids is they should not feel shame if their parents are poor or could not give them every thing they want.
2. I don't know how successful you are. I didn't feel the author is coming this forum来找感觉的, but I do feel you are here 来找感觉的. I also believe the suggestions at the end of this article is quite useful to some parents who do what they could for their kids but can't get their respect. It is also help those parents to educate their children to ensure their have healthy personality. It is OK for author to be proud for his achievement since we should always applaud for every success in our life.
3. If you really familiar with Chinese soccer team and read all the detail report about them, you should know their failures have nothing to do with congenital, the only one reason is they are spoiled and lazy. They have highest salary but least training. If they work as hard as other athletes. I believe they will succeed. Same as all those Chinese in Canada either they are first or second generation immigrants or international students. I saw so much successful story happend around me including myself. Nothing to show off just want to give some confidences to people who are struggling. I had worked in the lowest position in one of largest company in canada 5 years ago when I just be here, a little better than cleaner, but unfortunately, cleaner is not employee of my company. I never lose my faith and do excellent job even it is half labour. After my English graduately improved, I got 3 promotions in 4 years and work in my profession field also involve in the executive. When you boss look at you, they don't care 你是在地下室长大的, or 是听歌剧、看芭蕾、旅游度假长大的. What they care is whether you are hard working, good interpersonal skill, professional competency....... I agree that the higher position you are, the more competitive it would be. The major barrier and challege for immigrant is English. So do whatever you could to improve it. Keep in mind the culture differents. Chinese be educated too modest. If you work in the western company don't be afraid to express your opinion.
In a word, this is a good article and I believe the author could have an excellent future. |
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