|
"当我在餐桌上和老公就南北菜系的细微差别进行讨论的时候,当我们对一个时代的声音同时进行怀念的时候,当我们只要对方吐出一个字,就能深透它背后的5000年历史的时候,更当我们在冬日的早晨,因对方的一句"罗衾不耐五更寒"而发出会意的一个微笑的时候,等等等等,我都要深深地庆幸,我是多么幸运地嫁给了一个同自己有一样文化的"
When we can sing the same songs that we grew up with, when we can talk about the movies stars we are all familiar with, the icon people in the Chinese history....etc and etc. We don't have to explain to each other. There is always the common understanding...
I totally agree with the author's point. And I could tell that she must have the dating experiences with white guyes- otherwise she won't come up with this conclusion.
Love is the purest thing in the world- if there is no other condition attached, believe most people will choose life partner from their own culture! |
|