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回复:Lesson
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Lesson
Mr./Ms. Sedona (You didn't gave your gender in your profile, so I don't know whether your are a male or female.)said: "The tragedy has nothing to do with sex, race, age..."
In my opinion, it does.
Look at the age difference at this couple. The woman was 47 and the man was 32. There was 15 years difference. Imagine this: if anyone's mother find him/her a 15 years younger step father, will he/her accept the fact? The answer will be: No. right? If you want to say yes, then think about yourself and then you may say no for sure. So the potencial conflict started right at the begin.
Why the woman find that much younger man? I don't know. Another guy's words not good but may be true in some degree. But I really don't know, so I don't dare to say since I'm another human being only and not the god. So I can't conduct another adult's behavier.
Talking about the race, please refer to my last reply. I think it's the reallity no matter you want or don't want to accept it. It's a shame but it's real.
The most important thing still is dealing with the right person. If you stay and live with a dangous person everyday, it's really very hard to avoid the unnecessary tragedies no matter what you do.
Again, no blame to the dead one and only to the alive ones.
In China, age is and is not an issue. An 82 year old Chinese man can marry a 28 year old girl, and have fun in the swimming pool, which is acceptable by Chinese. A 47 year old woman and a 32 year old man are not acceptable. Give me a break. Chinese are so used to old man young girl, but not old woman young man.
In Canada, age is not important.
The winners of the last lottery jack pot are husband and wife. Both are white. He is like 70 and she is 42. My friend is 58, and her husband is only 40.
I have been around for a few months. ffgg123 is my girlfriend, so I am a man. |
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