为救7岁儿子 40岁华裔爸爸魂断古巴

Xin Ru Rong

Agree.
Feel sad for the family. Hope the kids are ok.
Insurance is more important than the house. In case anything happens, it's the protection for the family, especially for those who have young kids at home. In canada, after tax, most of the families don't have saving. it's difficult to donate more to the family who needs. So buy a term insurance probably only causes as the same as one time DIMSUM in the restaurant. Just skip the DIMSUM once a month for the insurance. I am not a insurance JJ.

Xin Ru Rong

是这个理。 一个40岁的又有家的人理因如此。 还没买保险的人 好好 考虑了。
事后大家的捐款能有多少呢，1万？3 万？ 5 万？  解决不了多少长远的房子，孩子教育问题。

再说几句难听的大实话。这个家庭比其它个案要幸运了， 刘悦不是还有十几万公司的保险吗？  丧葬费应该没问题。还能留点供孩子上大学。在CRA收入不错， 而且单亲家庭的补贴还行， 中小学也没学费， 大学可以贷款。 大家给他们捐款的意义何在？帮付房贷，车贷？ 我自己的还没清呢， 更不舍得去古巴度假呢？  愿意捐当然好， 但别拿道德绑架其它人。
QRBOP 发表于 2014-3-25 10:00

Agree, I think their friends want to get some donation to help pay off their mortgage. I don't think they have financial problem now. Yes, If I live in Ottawa, I can volunteering for their family for something else. So many families has no money for vacation for so many years after tax, mortgage........They are a middle class family

Xin Ru Rong

我总觉得这么一个事情， 大张旗鼓地， 是对逝者的极大不尊重。

首先， 是旅游去世的。
二呢， 夫妇俩都有好工作， 好生活， 好福利。  
三呢， 这后事的花费，其实并不大。 而且，  都会福利报销的。
四呢， 如果有朋友，同事，老乡等张罗，面向社会捐款， 家属也该制止。
五呢， 绝大多数华人去世的， 正常死亡， 意外死亡， 生活好的， 生活差的， 都选择了不向社会公开。

也不知家属是怎么想的。
得到这些捐款， 是额外的收入， 将来不需要还的， 不得白不得？
你向公众暴光了， 就要接受公众的全方位的注视，
还有俩孩子， 也要承受一些不期望的关注， 非孩子所愿。

有些行为， 太太一句话， 事情就结束了。
反之， 公众的议论是免不了的
C罗 发表于 2014-3-26 01:49

Remeber n years ago, Mr. Wang died in a Car accicent left wife and two young kids (2 & 5 years old). Friends of Mr. Wang want to hlep this family out. Mrs. Wang Said " We have enough money to cover this, we don't need people to donate their money to us, but we need somebody as volunteers to help taking care of the kids". Mr. Wang just working as a labour and Mrs. Wang staying home to take care of two kids. Comparing to Mr. Liu and Ms. Bu family, Mr. wang's family needs more financial support. ...... N year flies by, hope Mrs. Wang and two kids are good.

Xin Ru Rong

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    如果确实已经够了，就没有必要继续。昨天看到有人说要到到20万，我觉得那不是组织者原有目的。

组织者已经很不容易了。毕竟是头一次，能做到这么好的地步，不太好什么方方面面的事情都要求到的。虽然组织者可能还没有意识到，但我感觉，一些网友的讨论，虽然可能不很中听，但其实都是很中肯的。耐心听听可能是自己不怎么喜欢听的东西，毕竟那些不同意见也是真诚在理的，对这件事情只有好处。