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最初由[DKnight]发布
It’s so hard to understand that Chinese people come here without serious consideration of immigration.
Anyway, do it yourself and deal with it yourself, you are on your own. I did such decision and will never say “what if …” to myself. My past is on another side of the ocean, my future is around the world or maybe just at a corner of a small town.
To those parents, you give your children a sweet home and your love, let them fight for their own future.
Hard to understand????
It is not hard to understand. Fate of some Chinese, at least those of my generation, is beyond their control. While you are talking about decision, don't you know some of us came to this foreign land, because of the social, economic and political environment in China from 60s to 80s?
You talk about a corner of a small town. I have done that and been there. I own 3 vacation properties: Sedona in Arizona, Outerbanks in North Carolina and Surfside Beach in South Carolina. No matter where I go, deep down in my heart is there a small missing piece - my 25 years without my home country.
Psychologists say no matter how successful you are, you regret what you have not done/achieved/accomplished.
I still miss her - my first girlfriend living across the #2 hospital in GZ. That's part of the missing piece. |
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