标题: 房东的烦恼：我家的租客老在聚餐 [打印本页] 作者: Bene 时间: 2005-6-13 01:31 标题: [评论]房东的烦恼：我家的租客老在聚餐 The good and peaceful solution is to drive them out as early as possible because you are not able to change their life style and you are not expecting to face a more serious problem when you have suffering enough from them.
Anger comes from even very nice person when he or she suffers enough.
Anger causes burning fire that might burn the house.
So put this into action: they must go by next month.作者: hanbo 时间: 2005-6-13 07:31 标题: 签个协议,每人每天限时不我待小时 签个协议,每人每天限时不超过小时,垃圾每周限一袋.这其实也是生活在这儿的一般规范.作者: bilingual 时间: 2005-6-13 09:25
请他另找房。作者: lz398 时间: 2005-6-13 11:54
Chinese people have too much excessive tolerance.作者: 北方男子 时间: 2005-6-13 12:21 标题: 找个理由请他们搬走 因为房东,房客都有自主权,一个愿意租,一个愿住,谁都可以中断这个关系作者: fullhalf 时间: 2005-6-13 13:39 标题: 建议你最好叫他们搬走 也曾经做人房东，遇到不讲理的房客真的很头疼。
你这个房东也太会算计了吧作者: 育婴亲子 时间: 2005-6-13 22:08 标题: 聚餐你都不喜欢，你还是中国人吗？ 作者: 罗国余 时间: 2005-6-13 23:24
It's simple!
Tell each other what you like and what you don't like. If each side can accept then you can keep renting to them. If not tell them to move. But make sure in a nice and polite way and give them one month to find a new place.作者: 芙蓉 时间: 2005-6-16 21:26
谢谢各位的意见,今天他们又聚餐了,一个星期不到,不节日不周未的,我和儿子又在外面吃的,看来该到说他们的时候了.我知道这时候说是晚了些,就象上面有上说会引起他们的恨.但也得说说了,大热天的在家聚餐,,开了空调也会觉得家里热轰轰的.
说来还是我一开始犯了心软的错误,他们来租房子时,我我看是两个人我一再说不想租,而且说了主要是因为公厨房,两个人作饭多,他们一再说不怎么作饭,而且经常回家.我才同意租给他们的.另外一件事就是我前面的租客当时没家具,房间家具都是我备的,特别是床, 我花了差不多五百元.后来又有一个房客她说有家具我又将我的家具寄存在朋友家,搬来搬去的,很麻烦.所以,从这有家具的房客搬走后,我就决定以后租房子都租给不带家具的.这次他们两人有家具,我就说了不租,后来他们同意用我的床,我才最后同意租给了他们.作房东是很麻烦,这个房客说有家具,那个房客又说没家具,有家具的不想用你的,没家具的想要有家具,让房东真的不知道备家具还是不备家具.我现在已备了家具,所以我说不租有家具的了.
到他们搬进来,临搬家的前一天晚上打电话来说他们不用我的床了,要我找地方放,我说要放现在也只能放在你的房间,等我找到地方了才能搬走,我不可能丢掉,沙发可以丢.他们说不行.没办法,一个晚上的时间要我找地方,一时还真找不到,想想我就跟他们说你们不要搬来了,我损失一个房租就算了,你们这样作我认为是不讲规矩,讲好了的事到头一天改变,我说如果换过来,当时我答应你们将床搬来,等你们搬进来的头一天告诉你们,不行,你们不能搬床来,你们会有什么想法?我知道你们不喜欢用别人的家具,那你们应该早说,或一开始就可以另外选择.我说如果你们这样还没搬进来就不讲规矩,那以后还会有不讲规矩的事,我不喜欢,我一直以来和房客的关系都处理得不错,我不想有矛盾出来.
其实当时一坚持也就好了.但女孩子打了电话给我,说同意不搬他们的床过来,说她们已退房了,不搬我这里也没地方搬了.我一心软就同意了.我说既然你们按租房时谈好的事来作,我也不好不同意你们进来了,只是我希望你们以后大家都按规矩来.包括我自已在内.
当他们第一次聚餐时,我没说是因为想想他们刚搬家,可能朋友帮帮忙,答谢别人是应该的.再请几次,我就跟老公说,这样是不是频繁了一点,老公说谁都有些朋友,刚搬来让他们吧.我又没说什么了.一直到上周六,我老公也觉得不行了,说要跟他们说说,忙了二天,还没来得及说今天又要聚餐了.是到说的时候了,我也在想找什么理由直接请他们搬吧!作者: 育婴亲子 时间: 2005-6-16 21:48 标题: 又聚餐了?幸福啊，大家一起吃嘛。何必出去吃呢多见外。住一起了就一家人了架子别太大 作者: 罗国余 时间: 2005-6-17 13:36
I am also a landlord. I give you a suggestion.
All Chinese are not easy here in Canada. They like to eat, you like to eat, I like to eat. Everybody likes to eat. This is Chinese culture. Eating outside is too expensive. So DIY at home is the only solution. But if you think they have get together too much and too often. So I think you should just tell them what you think frankly and directly. But make sure in a friendly and polite way. If they can accept then the problem solved. If they can't accept, then you can ask them to move. Again, you should talk to them in a nice way.
I have never had any this kind of problems with my tenants in the past 5 years.
My experience are:
1. Chose tenants first. I only rent to those polite people who
keep promise and keep on time.They are willing to sign
agreement with me.
2. I always sign a detailed rental agreement with my tenants
and get a photocopy of of tenents' ID( passport of drivers
license). Getting a copy of their ID is a very important factor
to get good people to live together under the same roof.
3. Make sure that the safty deposit is a DEPOSIT, not last
month rent. The DEPOSIT will only be returned to the
tenants on the day when they move out.
4. Taking them as your business partner. ( Renting is a
business. You are doing business with your tenants) So you
have to take good care of them. Try your best to help
them. You help them you keep the good business. I am
sure they all need someone to help.
You should not share kitchen with others. Why don't you make another simple kitchen for your tenents so long as you want rent rooms out? It is very unconvenient to share kitchen with others especially when you have kids.
Just for your reference.作者: 俺是来看戏的 时间: 2005-6-17 14:26
人气旺啊，他们多聚聚，你中头彩的日子就不远了。不用和他们过不去。作者: icerain2000 时间: 2005-6-24 13:10 标题: 回复：回复：回复：回复：很奇怪你的做法 最初由[大白菜]发布 回复：回复：回复：很奇怪你的做法