其实任何家庭和婚姻都是需要一方妥协的. 而且这种妥协不是一丁点儿. 这与嫁给哪国人没有什么必然联系. 嫁给中国人和其它国家的人都有离婚和幸福婚姻. 关键是找一个能容忍和成熟的人. 诚然, 不同的背景更需要互相迁就. 其实, 暂时分居未必不是一件好事. (This is why ontario family law requires at least one year separation before divorce. COOL DOWN & BE RATIONAL)
Broken marriage is not one side's fault and you can not say that is because of different race (What is the divorce rate in China? similar as here). Divorce rate going up is a fact in all the countries.
If a lady with 2 kids is not be able to let her husband share the money and effort/work, She need to improve herself.
Some man are just very lazy by nature, better open your eyes before you think of marriage especially plan to have kids.