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最初由[Sedona]发布
Hard to understand????
It is not hard to understand. Fate of some Chinese, at least those of my generation, is beyond their control. While you are talking about decision, don't you know some of us came to this foreign land, because of the social, economic and political environment in China from 60s to 80s?
You talk about a corner of a small town. I have done that and been there. I own 3 vacation properties: Sedona in Arizona, Outerbanks in North Carolina and Surfside Beach in South Carolina. No matter where I go, deep down in my heart is there a small missing piece - my 25 years without my home country.
Psychologists say no matter how successful you are, you regret what you have not done/achieved/accomplished.
I still miss her - my first girlfriend living across the #2 hospital in GZ. That's part of the missing piece.
easy, man. Maybe my english is not good enough, maybe you didn't comletely read my first sentence. sorry, have to type english again,'cause I can't input chinese here.
I was saying that many chinese immigrants don't think carefully, just some beautiful stories make them come here. However, those beautiful things may not be that good in their eyes when they are standing on another side of this planet.
I totally understand what attracts them (and myself too), I would assume that a person, adult, should be able to consider things maturely and thoughtfully. but it doesn't seem people are doing this.
Yes, regrets are bad, but if the regrets were made because of a lack of consideration, that's worse. wrong (regrets) or right (sucess) is not the point. |
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