人们都在追求幸福生活,那么多人都把去美国当成了幸福,但我们应该记住,1/4的人类居民是不能把另一个国家当成我们幸福的归宿的。这就是我的感悟。 (青年参考/李利群 )作者: 闻鸿 时间: 2002-8-22 17:15
Xu's argument is sort of contradictory and cynical. after some many years working in new oriental and selling young chinese students the american dream, now he is saying that studying abroad is not equal happiness.
indeed, the reason why many people going abroad might be jus that we always think the grass is grenner elsewhere, or people might simple to know another culture and another lifestyle.作者: Thunder 时间: 2003-4-25 01:47
小伙子写的不错,你两篇文章我都看了,虽然我也是个老一辈穷留学生,但我我完全支持你的观点,我这里完全不论新与老的界限,大家都是留学生。人毕竟背景不同,我羡慕新一代留学生可以享受着优厚的物质生活,从而更好的去学习,然而自己是个穷学生,那就过穷学生的生活呗,无可非议。反而我觉得那些所谓的老一辈留学生真有点吃不到葡萄说葡萄酸的感觉,说白了就是嫉妒。你们要是有很多钱不一样也会变奢侈吗(别昧着良心说不是啊) 我要是有钱就全写在脸上,哈哈。作者: 电波少年 时间: 2004-11-20 14:42
Thunder
好!!!!!!!!!!!太好啊!!!!!!!1
我同以!!!!!!作者: 天高任鸟飞 时间: 2005-8-22 10:23
早就被老婆问:出国有什么好?你别当国外是天堂!可我有什么办法?真真被老妈送出来了,老妈也后悔了!
这话让小平说的太精辟了!留学不能和幸福划等号的!作者: 子好 时间: 2005-8-24 10:32
经历者如鱼饮水,冷暖自知,实不为外人道。
虽然如此,前赴后继者仍如过江之鲫。。。作者: heimat 时间: 2005-10-27 10:18
i really appreciate what xu wrote about studying aboard not equal happiness. he never said that we should not go aboard studying, but we must be clear at our purpose of studying aboard, and we must be clear: studying aboard is only one of the procedures of our way to happiness, it is not study itself.作者: 肖申克 时间: 2006-9-14 16:06
呵呵,往往是忠言逆耳利于行