星星生活：本是同屋住 相煎何太急

Rose2013

我找房客，条件之一是不要新移民，我这里不是生活培训中心，没工夫培训什么都不懂极度自私的新移民

唱歌的鱼

难得作者能这样坦白的检讨自己。我也是由房客变成的房东。感受相同。看到房客对水电的不仔细使用，心里真的是不舒服，当我真想去说说时，就强迫自己想想自己做房客时的感觉。。。。难呀。道理好说，可真做到那样，真的不容易。尤其是我们这样不宽裕，省吃俭用的供房子的新房东。

yilu

All of you are lucky! I, a 40 years old single mom, was a good landlord and never had any compliance or conflict with any of my tenants. But 4 months ago, my tenant (a Chinese lady) and her boyfriend (a Canadian man) assaulted my whole family -the man pulled me rolling down 13 stair, and my 70 years old parents were assaulted as well and then caused their heart attack. We almost lost 3 lifes! I called 911 and the polic arrested them. But one month later we got summons from the provincial court-my tenant and her boyfriend laid criminal charges to all three of us for assaulting them. My parents and myself were all shocked. We couldn't understand how and why these people were trying to turn black into white, wrong into right until we saw the disclosure from the court, actually they bit themself up and took pictures and brought to the court and accused us did it. Now my whole family is in a very serious condition-our health going down everyday. Tomorrow we have to go to the court. Right now all my parents and myself are very stressed. I don't know where and how and who should we ask for help.

清新小溪

几年以后来回味，不就那每月几十块钱嘛。房东房客相逢一笑泯恩仇。

alfonso

最初由[yilu]发布
All of you are lucky! I, a 40 years old single mom, was a good landlord and never had any compliance or conflict with any of my tenants. But 4 months ago, my tenant (a Chinese lady) and her boyfriend (a Canadian man) assaulted my whole family -the man pulled me rolling down 13 stair, and my 70 years old parents were assaulted as well and then caused their heart attack. We almost lost 3 lifes! I called 911 and the polic arrested them. But one month later we got summons from the provincial court-my tenant and her boyfriend laid criminal charges to all three of us for assaulting them. My parents and myself were all shocked. We couldn't understand how and why these people were trying to turn black into white, wrong into right until we saw the disclosure from the court, actually they bit themself up and took pictures and brought to the court and accused us did it. Now my whole family is in a very serious condition-our health going down everyday. Tomorrow we have to go to the court. Right now all my parents and myself are very stressed. I don't know where and how and who should we ask for help.


你没有提到事情的发生起因...他们为何那么作? 连老人家都不放过?

但应该不会很糟的吧! 因为你们毕竟CALL 911了... 警察那里有记录的:rolleyes:

phil48

刚刚落地的新移民，有些 真的非常不自觉，经常不请就串门，养成“习惯”后，你不让他”串门“，反而倒打一耙。3年前租一家人的房子主层，新来一家住地下室，房东也规定他家人不能天天上来到不属于他租的空间，但是，他们刚刚到，经常上来问这问那，能帮 就帮，后来也就不关”地下室“的门，使他们有机会随时上来，最后发展到天天上来”打电话“，一打就30分钟--3个小时影响他人休息。 （他自己有手机，只是为了节约钱，而我当时利用EI在读书，希望安静些），我只能把地下室进入主层门锁住。他反而恶人先告状片面向房东的前夫（房东回国了，前夫管理房子）讲我不让他上楼，房东前夫不分青红皂白向我发火，还要动粗。我对付这些人方法就是合同和法律，合同规定我租房时附带可以使用房东固定电话（我的电话非常少），而这家人看到我用电话想当然认为“他家人”也可以用。最后，我只写一封信给房东，把问题讲清，搞得房东前夫一个多月不敢来见我要房租。
    教训： “同情心”用的不合适，最后害自己。这家人刚来那种“低三下四”的劲头让人同情，一旦熟悉一些情况，就反客为主，不依他还不行，最后，找到一份12元工作，就“趾高气扬”，认为自己如何了不起,一扫“住地下室”的“低下”----都是他自己心里作怪，自己看不起自己，认为住 地下室“低人一等。他向房东前夫告状的一条理由”我们走路“声音”大，影响他家的休息，老房子又没有地毯，楼上走路，自然有些“”吱吱“声。太长了，不多讲了，我的经验就是按”合同和法律“去做没有吃过'亏”的，但是，“好心没有好报”的事，常常在华人生活环境可以看到。

yilu

The reason is my son was playing piano at 11:30am on Sunday. Then suddenly accompanyed a very loud noise, my house was shaking and my clock on the wall dropped to the floor. It was that guy smashing the basement door hardly. When I approached to ask what's up, he violently shouted complaining the piano, continuing smashing the door and causing the door frame broken and crushed. When I asked him to stop, he suddenly and rapidly pulled me down to the staired. Even now, whenever I think back, I am still very scared and feel threatened.

偷渡贪老大

垃圾新移民：家底不厚就不要随随便便移过来，想从房租上省钱就得忍受房东的白眼或者roommate的干扰。[略知一二]说得一针见血："房东的家不是生活培训中心，没工夫培训什么都不懂又极度自私的垃圾新移民"

垃圾穷房东：买得起，就要供得起。有信心买，就得有本事供。买得起房却供不起，想不劳而获总是要付出代价的。只希望代价不要超过张东岳的父母。（一房租五家，真是穷疯了，不出事才见鬼。）

yilu

最初由[alfonso]发布



你没有提到事情的发生起因...他们为何那么作? 连老人家都不放过?

但应该不会很糟的吧! 因为你们毕竟CALL 911了... 警察那里有记录的:rolleyes:

The reason is my son was playing piano at 11:30am on Sunday. Then suddenly accompanyed a very loud noise, my house was shaking and my clock on the wall dropped to the floor. It was that guy smashing the basement door hardly. When I approached to ask what's up, he violently shouted complaining the piano, continuing smashing the door and causing the door frame broken and crushed. When I asked him to stop, he suddenly and rapidly pulled me down to the staired. Even now, whenever I think back, I am still very scared and feel threatened.

focus

最初由[phil48]发布
华人乱串门习惯不好，有许多事是非不分。。。

刚刚落地的新移民，有些 真的非常不自觉，经常不请就串门，养成“习惯”后，你不让他”串门“，反而倒打一耙。3年前租一家人的房子主层，新来一家住地下室，房东也规定他家人不能天天上来到不属于他租的空间，但是，他们刚刚到，经常上来问这问那，能帮 就帮，后来也就不关”地下室“的门，使他们有机会随时上来，最后发展到天天上来”打电话“，一打就30分钟--3个小时影响他人休息。 （他自己有手机，只是为了节约钱，而我当时利用EI在读书，希望安静些），我只能把地下室进入主层门锁住。他反而恶人先告状片面向房东的前夫（房东回国了，前夫管理房子）讲我不让他上楼，房东前夫不分青红皂白向我发火，还要动粗。我对付这些人方法就是合同和法律，合同规定我租房时附带可以使用房东固定电话（我的电话非常少），而这家人看到我用电话想当然认为“他家人”也可以用。最后，我只写一封信给房东，把问题讲清，搞得房东前夫一个多月不敢来见我要房租。
    教训： “同情心”用的不合适，最后害自己。这家人刚来那种“低三下四”的劲头让人同情，一旦熟悉一些情况，就反客为主，不依他还不行，最后，找到一份12元工作，就“趾高气扬”，认为自己如何了不起,一扫“住地下室”的“低下”----都是他自己心里作怪，自己看不起自己，认为住 地下室“低人一等。他向房东前夫告状的一条理由”我们走路“声音”大，影响他家的休息，老房子又没有地毯，楼上走路，自然有些“”吱吱“声。太长了，不多讲了，我的经验就是按”合同和法律“去做没有吃过'亏”的，但是，“好心没有好报”的事，常常在华人生活环境可以看到。

"一旦熟悉一些情况，就反客为主"
"找到一份12元工作，就“趾高气扬”
"“好心没有好报”的事，常常在华人生活环境可以看到"

VERY TRUE...Many of those newer immigrants are selfish and truly disgusting.

albertszcn51

要想成为贵族,需三代换血,
华人的素质本身就差,
每个人好自为之吧

IT_MCSE_250

最初由[偷渡贪老大]发布
都是穷光蛋，相煎太正常。

垃圾新移民：家底不厚就不要随随便便移过来，想从房租上省钱就得忍受房东的白眼或者roommate的干扰。[略知一二]说得一针见血："房东的家不是生活培训中心，没工夫培训什么都不懂又极度自私的垃圾新移民"

垃圾穷房东：买得起，就要供得起。有信心买，就得有本事供。买得起房却供不起，想不劳而获总是要付出代价的。只希望代价不要超过张东岳的父母。（一房租五家，真是穷疯了，不出事才见鬼。）


顶老大!!

funnysummer

作者文章里提到的换位思考非常值得学习，省自身。但是房客的素质和当时的处境心情会表现得不同。这个跟什么“垃圾技术移民“的论调没有关系。这么高高在上，就不要天天来这个技术移民最多的网泡着。难道在加拿大一天房客没有当过一下飞机就买房子的人才有资格移民？
我连现在住的房子在内总共2个房东，关系都处得很好，让我都离不开Markham这个区了。比较一下房东的经济情况的不同表现出来还是有一点区别，前者曾经委婉的说用电压锅比较省电和快捷，因为我喜欢煲汤，我反应过来了，就凑着电压锅降价买了一个，果然又快又好。这样对谁都有好处。我的大嗓门一开始也注意不到，我老公就经常提醒我。房东的小孩子很闹，不过我自小不怕吵，所以也没矛盾，反而觉得生活充满生气呢。现在的房东经济好人很大方，还给我们事业上很多指点，看到这个好榜样，我们对生活都多了很多信心。怎么舍得搬呢。
所以我觉得作者的换位思考是良训。说句实话，我们找房子是很挑的，宁愿多掏100元也要找好房子好房东，我们是很穷的技术新移民，我们很少出去吃饭，都是自家做，但是绝不想为了省100一个月房租为住房伤脑筋。不过我觉得我作为房东还有一些待改进的，加油！

PWNSin

最初由[nina2004]发布
[评论]星星生活：本是同屋住 相煎何太急

我找房客，条件之一是不要新移民，我这里不是生活培训中心，没工夫培训什么都不懂极度自私的新移民

这位仁兄，你是移民吗？ 你曾经不是新移民？

你还不租给新移民，你这么有能耐的还出租干吗？你简直是个B!tch。

哇咧

就是适应了新移民的需要