随缘而行：与收养娃娃同行感动在旅途中

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There was a CBC/ABC documentary interviewing these girls and it clearly shown they grown up to be a much better person.

Smart, outgoing, pleasant and considerate, unlike all those little queen and king raised by Chinese families (selfish, like to compare, very dependent on parents, cries a lot, spoil).

There was a story about whether one should plant their flower with water or milk?  i think Chinese parents are doing too much planting their little "flowers" with too much goodness "milk" and in turn poisoning them in the process.