星星生活：从加拿大回国相亲车轮大战

加拿大半仙

次女定是个恐龙，再加上离过婚，和没有自知之明地挑三拣四，最后嫁给老黑的几率很高。

哇咧

focus

"从小被百般恩宠，任性娇蛮。虽然家里也只是小康殷实人家，我花钱从来不过大脑，因为我零用钱的来源广泛，不仅父母，更有工作的哥哥们。什么都是最新潮的，什么都是最贵的。他们那么纵容我"

A typical problem with most if not all women from china, not only they feel no shame they actuallly proud to admit it and kept on doing those silly things.

Inconsiderate, childish and immature; created a huge liability to other and the society :mad:

静心来客

lz应该放低要求啊,,要知道在加拿大, 条件好的太多啦,,很多人再过国内都是住别墅,开名车..而且都20多岁,,学历,相貌,什么都不错啊,,找的人还不是一般般

小川的爹

as a 2nd-hand crazy lady.

独立意志

夏候草

She hasn't prepared well.

Sedona

This story is 99% a fiction, unless her last name is Deng.

This woman is 35 years old, so born either in 1972 or 1972, just before the one child policy in 1972.

作为家里最小的女儿，从小被百般恩宠，任性娇蛮。虽然家里也只是小康殷实人家，我花钱从来不过大脑，因为我零用钱的来源广泛，不仅父母，更有工作的哥哥们。什么都是最新潮的，什么都是最贵的。

How many of us had such a lifestyle in 1970s?  Middle class Chinese never saw any "money" till late 80s to 90s.

26岁生日那天，我结婚，26岁结束那天，我离婚

What a co-incidence!  The co-incidence could be a drama effect in story telling.

还找黑道上的人威胁我。最后，大哥找到黑道上的老大出面，才平息了事端。他和我离婚，好像家里还给了他一笔钱。

Sounds like a Hong Kong movie.


“小妹，我们和父亲商量了，你出国待一待吧，散散心。你看你是想留学还是移民。”我选择了移民。

Interesting!  How did she qualify for a landed status in Canada? Skilled labour?  Investor?  Or, refugee?

At 26, without much work experience or the investment amount earned and accumulated by legal means, she just hopped on a plan to come to Canada.  She must belong to the Deng family or alike.

我在加拿大也有很多男朋友的。”我逗他们

Given her personality and being a single woman in Canada, she is an easy target (or the dim sum) for white Canada.

公派到意大利工作了几年，有些洋墨水

If she has lived in Canada for some time, she would know 公派到意大利工作 means nothing.  This is a typical mindset of women in China who have not seen the world.

Mary，我也有英文名字叫做peter

Mary must be waiting for Paul.  Peter, Paul and Mary: what a threesome.

“这道菜，作好，但不用端上来，凉一下，把浮油撇掉，加些红糖。我要带走的。”嗯，看来是一个懂吃的人。

Wow. He fed his wife with red sugar.  Watch out for diabetes and hyperactivity. Did she ever live in Canada?

一个是做房地产的，一个是银行的。

I am not sure if she has been dating those who are males, but their careers are all known to us.  Is she looking for love or a marriage?

我交往了一个小我两岁的男友，他现在还在贷款上学。

She has a boyfriend receiving government loan to attend school.  Interesting.  He must be a slow learner, so doing his bachelor degree or college diploma at 33.  If he is doing his masters or PhD, he will have a teaching assistanceship like a salary.

This story is written by someone who has not lived in Canada.  Perhaps, she is living in Canada, but has no exposure to the Canadian society.

WTTO

最初由[Sedona]发布
Fiction

This story is 99% a fiction, unless her last name is Deng.



对芙郎写的故事不要太研究细节，领会精神就好了。

独立意志

三和居士

尽管说,没有感情的婚姻是不道德的,然而,感情也可在婚后培养.只要人品好,有能力,尽可能门当户对,就大体可以通过.
爱,就是付出,要有一辈子付出的准备.

独立意志

如果结婚，只是为了“付出”，谁干这样的傻事？还“一辈子付出”？

即便是“互依互助、互帮互利”，谁也不能保证“一辈子”。因为至少，你不能保证对方一辈子不变。

说话前先动动脑筋，不要再提什么“海枯石烂”之爱，那话违背基本常识。

环境在变，人在变(你在变，他/她也在变)。
没有什么可以长久保证的，硬保证不变，是违背爱和人性的原则的，所以也是不道德的。

以上所言，并非教你对婚姻随意。

最初由[三和居士]发布
爱,就是付出,要有一辈子付出的准备.

publicbus

哈里法斯

她以后的婚姻都会是同一个结局，因为她的家庭教育使她成为一个与正常人相距甚远的人。另外，谁娶她，谁倒霉。

三和居士

付出不是为了索取,
付出陪育着爱,
人非草木,对方亦然,
所以付出会有回报的.

人品不良难以培育出爱,那只能怪自己看走眼了.
门户指广义的,文化,地域,教育,家庭,价值观......两个来自不同家庭的人,同类项越多,越易磨合,反之亦然.