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回复：Lady, you made some mistakes too
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Lady, you made some mistakes too
I agree your husband did something wrong. but he is not the only one to blame for this bad result, you did something wrong too, and maybe even worse.
1. Do NOT refuse a man's request to make love, if you still love him. If you do not feel well, tell him the truth, he will understand. (if he still insists, then he does not deserve the love.) Otherwise, don't do this, even if you have a good reason, even if you want to give him a good surprise!!!
NEVER EVER use this refusion as a tool with your good wills, or as a punishment to deal with him!!! Of course, after a few times, he will lose all the interests for sure, and won't come back to you any more.
Think about this seriously, don't consider ml is something you can make a joke.... Each story has a start, and you are actually the person who start this sad story.
2. Why don't you tell him that you (both you and him, not just you!) have a baby when he tried to make love with you???? I cannot believe that you even cannot yell loudly to stop him and get a chance to tell him why you cannot make love.
3. Why don't you tell him that you lost the baby because of what he did? He is the father of the baby, and he has the right to know it. You cannot make decisions for others.
If a person does not know all the facts, he/she can make wrong decision. I think this is what have happened all in this story.
- You didn't accept to ml with your husband since you need to protect your baby and want to give him a surprise. What a wrong thing you did! How long did you have to keep this till your anniversary? Your husband didn't know this fact, and he made a wrong decision as a response.
- You didn't tell him you have a baby and cannot ml when he forced to ml with you. Cann't you yell one shout at that time?????? "I have baby!" is more than enough to stop him! Or you can even bite him to stop hime. He didn't know this at that time either, and make a wrong move again.
- You didn't tell him that you (both you and him) lost the baby due to what he did. You raped the chance for him to know the truth again and raped the chance for him to get back to you again, unless you already did not want to be together any more at that time.
Again, you are not clever than anybody else to make decisions for them. I do not intent to embarrass you here, but what I mean is each person make decision based on what he/she knows. You cannot judge them based on what they DON'T know and you know! This is a huge mistake!
I do not mean what your husband did is correct by all of these. He could do something better to save this family as well, unfortunately he did not.
This is a sad story, end up at seperation. But at least you get somebody loves you and you can move in to. What he gets is just a place to hide. Anyway, I hope you two will get some lesson from this marriage, and all of the rest of us can get some lesson from you as well.
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发表于 2005-12-6 08:20:35
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