老唐W5! 华人岛主 发表于 2015-12-23 11:47
老唐W5!
老唐, 这事儿呀, 您得辩证地去看待. 我觉得主要是大家内心深处受我们的传统 ...
五十曲艺 发表于 2015-12-23 12:28
楼主要是在中国小黑屋一关，进门一顿暴打，窝窝头连吃一个月，保证能反思。。。。
怨只怨加拿大监狱饲养太 ...
唐炜臻 发表于 2015-12-23 13:24
神的话语使我得安宁
萧虹
唐炜臻 发表于 2015-12-23 13:20
五十曲艺是个坏蛋
真是一封令人心碎的信 
这才是大家眼皮底下有血有肉的 真正难民 
从对事不对人的人性角度出发, 湖南同乡会应该带头帮助老唐一家人. 唐炜臻 发表于 2015-12-23 14:05
From: Vance Tang []
Sent: April 23, 2015 3:35 PM
To: Gonos, John
These past years, I honestly thought that I was "stupid." I did not understand why my teachers were so mean to me. My grade 9 french teacher made me cry in class. My dad was broke and put into jail. I did not have any friends that would look out for me, other than Carl. Many of my friends from Cummer Valley prioritized high school over me. Many of my parents' friends betrayed my parents and me, I was so paranoid who to trust. I had a stroke and brain surgery.
To be perfectly honest, I was suicidal. My mentality was, nobody really cared about me. My mom knew about this, but even she was so busy with my dad's court case that she couldn't sleep well and fell into a severe clinical depression herself. It was as if I left, nobody would notice I left. From failing classes because I was still unable to completely (100%) move my right side, having migraines all the time from lack of rest. I felt like a failure from asian stereotypes and being labeled as a failure by my high school teachers. I honestly felt like a burden for my parents, and wasting money for me to survive was meaningless. I acknowledge that my high school teachers just did not know about me that well, but this was my mentality when I was going through these hard times.
Over the past 6 years I was very unsure about everything, my teachers, how much they cared, who were my friends, how rough it was for my parents, if my romance was doing well, how well i was doing in school. I really just wanted to play games, the only place where I didn't need to think about my life. It wasn't until last year, 2014, that I realized it's not in the teachers job description to be nice to their students. I just thought I was stupid, and my teachers did not care about me in high school and University. Not once have I ever asked my mom to go into Parent-Teacher Interviews" because I was afraid of what my teachers had to say about me. The way each one of you treated us as students, was definitely beyond your respective job description. I just wanted your current students to acknowledge that.
Never in my life have I ever realized what this quote mean't. "The people who are around you influence you." Each one of you did influence me. I imagined if middle school was a completely different way. Middle school could've been a much different experience, even if I came from another country. I was born here and just figured all these caring and passionate teachers were caring for our education.
Each one of you definitely influence me. It could've been a very different experience. I could've not done as much volunteering as I did in middle school. I probably wouldn't have done that well in class. You all individually changed me from what I could've been which is why I am thankful.
I am a very stubborn child. It took one grade 9 teacher, my dad's lawsuit to go crazy, my friends to forget about me, and my stroke to begin suicidal thoughts. Everyone has their own troubles, these were mine. It was Katherine Chen, Carl Zhao, my mom staying in Canada to watch over me, my grade 12 english teacher (which everyone thinks is a hard marker, strict and also taught for 20+ years in the Newtonbrook), my sister, quotes from Steve Jobs, Martin Luther King, Jack Layton, music and anime to reconsider my thoughts.
"You help nobody by giving up," because you honestly don't. I just wanted your current students to acknowledge that passionate and caring teachers are rare to come by. But even if you have hardships as long as you will try with a strong will, you can succeed high school/university and even graduate school. You, teachers from Lillian public school, even Mde Ionescu, Ms. Bushell, Mrs. Strauss, Mr. C, Mrs. Schneider, Mr. Antonowicsz, Mrs. Stacey and Mrs. Brown all supported me in their own unique way.
I sincerely thank all of you for the way you were 8 years ago until now, many of your previous students may seem like they do not appreciate it but I definitely do. When I had only negative thoughts all I can think of, was the great times I had when I was back in Cummer Valley and Lillian Public School. I hope your current students come back to show their appreciation. Whenever you want me to come back, even if I'm going through hardships in law school, I will still come down. I am more comfortable with what I had to experience, then I was while experiencing it. I don't exactly know how tiring being a teacher is but I sincerely appreciate it. "Only when one experiences it, can one understand the consequences of it." All of you will always be very special to me.
Sincerely,
Vance Tang
真是一封令人心碎的信! 
遥望王师又一年 发表于 2015-12-23 14:27
"加拿大湖南同乡会是我和我的大学同学李海航在唐炜臻我家商议发起的...."
遥望王师又一年 发表于 2015-12-23 14:50
我感到有些湖南人挺能串通，更能玩政治把戏，其实就是拉帮结伙与骗人害人！
我曾参加过一次湖南同乡会举办 ...
华人岛主 发表于 2015-12-23 14:55
你看, 又把这么隐私的事搬到网上来了. 赶紧删掉吧, 老于.
华人岛主 发表于 2015-12-23 14:34
老于, 别理那些烦心事. 您过来指点指点, 人们该如何帮帮老唐那受牵连遭罪的家人? ...
遥望王师又一年 发表于 2015-12-23 15:00
1、唐炜臻同胞不要说大话，不要追求不切实际的目标，不要搞湖南帮等；
2、唐炜臻同胞当务之急是打赢官司， ...
华人岛主 发表于 2015-12-23 15:05
老于, 这样, 麻烦您把孩子的信翻译成中文吧, 很多人不习惯看英文.
遥望王师又一年 发表于 2015-12-23 15:15
1、我刚才去浏览了那封英文信的前两段，我心情比较难受。
2、现在已经是下午3点，我还没有吃午饭呢，我天 ...
华人岛主 发表于 2015-12-23 15:33
拜托了, 老于. 注意保重身体健康.
捉鱼小子 发表于 2015-12-23 13:17
唐炜臻这么牛，天不怕地不怕，有天下无敌的毛泽东思想在手，还需要找人帮忙？？？？？？？？？？？？
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华人岛主 发表于 2015-12-23 15:33
拜托了, 老于. 注意保重身体健康.
遥望王师又一年 发表于 2015-12-24 11:45
下面是我刚才翻译的唐炜臻的儿子写的一封信，翻译的很不好，不过欢迎任何批评指正。
亲爱的Gonos先生、Collier女士、Lim女士，
过去的这些年坦诚地说我是“愚蠢的”。我不明白为何我的老师们待我如此刻薄，我的9年级法语老师整得我在课堂上哭，我爸爸破产并坐牢了，除Carl之外我没有任何朋友关照我。我的许多Cummer Valley高中的朋友瞧不起我【自视高我一等】。我父母的许多朋友背叛了我的父母与我，我变得很偏执【注：这句话不通】。我中过风、大脑做过手术。
十分坦白地说我曾要自杀，没有人关心我的精神状况【注：英文也不通】。我妈妈知道这些，不过她因忙于我爹的案子而无法休息好、患了严重的忧郁症。似乎只剩下了我，无人关心。我缺课导致无法全部完成学业，总是缺乏休息不足【注：英文不大通】。我感到自己像一个来自亚洲的呆板失败者，我被我的高中老师们贴上失败者的标签。如实地说我感到自己是父母的负担，继续活下去是没有意义地浪费钱财。我认识到我的高中老师们只是对我了解的不够好，但这正是在我历经困难时刻时出现的精神问题。
过去的6年我对任何事情都特拿不准，我的老师们，他们关心我多少，我的朋友们，我的父母多么艰难，假如我的浪漫进展良好，在学校里我会表现多好【注：这一段英文问题比较多和大】。我真的只想玩游戏，这是我不需再想我的生活的唯一地方。直到去年（2014年）我才认识到待学生不错并非教师的职责。我只认为自己傻，我的高中和大学老师们没有关心我。我从未要求我妈去参加“家长-老师 见面会”，因为我害怕我的老师们不得不说我啥。每个老师对待学生的方式当然出乎每人职业的范围。我只想现在的学生们认识到这一点。
在我的生命中我从不明白这句格言的含义：“你什么的人会影响你”。你们每一个人肯定影响了我，我想如果中学是完全不同的一种情况的话【注：这句也不通。】。即便我来自另一个国家，中学本没有许多区别。我出生这里并只想老师们对教育所给予的所有关心与感情。
你们每一个人肯定影响了我。本来可以是一个大不相同的经历。我可以不像中学时那样做那么多义工。我很可能在学业上做不了那么好。你们每一个人在我所能做到之处都改变了我，这正是我感激你们的原因。
我是一个很固执的孩子，这使得我的一位9年级老师、我的爸爸申诉变得疯狂以及我的朋友们忘记了我，从而导致我产生自杀的念头。人人都有自己的麻烦【困境】，这些是我的困境。【下面的几句英文支离破碎：】正是Katherine Chen、Carl Zhao、我妈妈留在加拿大关照我，我的12年级英文老师【大家都认为他给人出难题、待人严厉、在Newtonbrook任教20多年】，我妹妹，格言来自乔布斯、马丁路德金、林顿，音乐与动漫抚慰我的思绪。
“放弃于任何人无助”，因为坦诚地说你没有提供帮助。我只想现在的学生们认识到对老师们的感情与关爱几乎没有捷径【注：come by 这个短语我没理解我，抱歉了】。但纵然你遇到挫折可只要你有坚强的意志去尝试则你能再高中、大学甚至研究生教育中取得成功。你们，Lillian 甚至Mde Ionescu公立学校的老师，Ms. Bushell, Mrs. Strauss, Mr. C, Mrs.Schneider, Mr. Antonowicsz, Mrs. Stacey and Mrs. Brown，人人都以自己的独特方式支持过我。
我真诚地感谢8年来到如今的你们每一个人，你们过去的许多学生可能他们并非如此感激你们，但我绝对感谢你们。每当我拥有负面思维的之时所有我能想到的是我在Cummer河谷与Lillian公立学校所拥有的美好时光。我希望现在的学生们能回校表达谢意。每当你们想让我回去时，即便我正在法律学校经历艰难时刻，我仍会冷静下来。我会对我必须经历的东西感到更舒适【注: “then I waswhile experiencing it”我一时不知道怎么翻为好，意思是“经历之时感到舒适”吗？】。我并不确切地知道一位老师有多累，不过我真诚表示感谢。“只有在一个人经历之后方明白其后果”。
你们所有的人于我都是非常特别的。
真诚的，
Vance Tang【唐】
老于, 好样的, 速度真快, 人才呀 遥望王师又一年 发表于 2015-12-24 11:45
下面是我刚才翻译的唐炜臻的儿子写的一封信，翻译的很不好，不过欢迎任何批评指正。
唐炜臻 发表于 2015-12-27 08:42
首先感谢于先生在百忙之中翻译我儿子的信，这是非常大的帮助，令人感动的事迹。大家要向于先生学习致敬。
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遥望王师又一年 发表于 2015-12-27 09:02
1、没说的、没什么，预祝唐先生全家新年快乐！并预祝唐先生不断走出困境。
听我的一句话：唐先生肯定有教 ...
唐炜臻 发表于 2015-12-27 09:31
再次感谢！这是您的态度和付出，至于水平，您翻的已经很不错了，您让大家都明白。 ...
遥望王师又一年 发表于 2015-12-27 09:02
1、没说的、没什么，预祝唐先生全家新年快乐！并预祝唐先生不断走出困境。
听我的一句话：唐先生肯定有教 ...
华人岛主 发表于 2015-12-28 22:38
老于, 抽空再看看《悲惨世界》这部伟大作品.
它已为全世界所接受. 它熔炼出来的灵魂，有一种不可抗拒的 ...
遥望王师又一年 发表于 2015-12-28 23:38
我会抽时间看的。
很感谢您的推荐，thank you so much !
唐炜臻 发表于 2015-12-29 08:54
我有同感，谢谢岛主推荐，一部伟大的作品是不容易，值得认真学习和研究的 ...
遥望王师又一年 发表于 2015-12-28 23:38
我会抽时间看的。
很感谢您的推荐，thank you so much !
华人岛主 发表于 2015-12-30 15:38
同祝老于新年德乐双收.
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