标题: 结婚六年 我竟然成了一个性冷淡的女人 [打印本页] 作者: 飞跃太平洋 时间: 2007-9-16 19:19 标题: [评论]结婚六年 我竟然成了一个性冷淡的女人 唉，生活就是这样的，无奈的地方很多，不要在意吧。换一个配偶又有新的问题。作者: 枫中一叶 时间: 2007-9-16 19:37
Don't blame your husband for your own changes, which is very unfair. My husband is the same. Those kind of men usually have big and good heart. They are careless and not good at saying beautiful words, but they are always reliable. You should feel lucky.
You said something very funny about losing your attractive appearance and ehthusiasm for sex. I think you are one of the two people who can answer this question: Who is to blame?
One more advice: Don't waste your time on writing articles complaining about your not-miserable-at-all-life. Instead, spend more time with your husband touching his cheek or kissing his lip. Go to spa or find how to improve your sex power. Be satisfied with your life and do not look for somthing in the air.作者: sunbaby 时间: 2007-9-16 23:02
生活上巨大的压力也促进了这种局面，好在苦难都已经过去了，珍惜和丈夫的风雨同舟，找出时间与老公孩子出去散步游玩，以免老公总是看电视。常常回想一下女儿的可爱与一家三口其乐融融的时刻。你所面对的仅仅是很多夫妻都会遭遇的“七年之痒”，相信当女儿再长大一些，你从照顾baby的辛苦之中解脱出来后，夫妻间的感情会更进一步的！作者: 新大陆 时间: 2007-9-17 09:54
我觉得你应该检讨下自己，如果你的老公没有变化。奢求得太多会啥也得不到的。作者: 自由万岁 时间: 2007-9-17 20:35
其实你老公是比较典型的, 这种老公虽然boring, 但很安全, 比出去沾花惹草的强多了, 你应该自己主动活跃家庭气氛.
以前我也总是抱怨老公对我不好, 总想不通他为什么就喜欢看电视和钓鱼呢, 经常吵吵也没有结果. 但现在我们都太了解对方了, 我知道吵也没用的. 我是主动出击, 你不夸我我自己夸, 你不理我我就得缠你,我一会去这, 一回要做那, 反正我得拽着你..... 我们现在是很happy 的 family, 只是你得明白, 男人就是这样一种动物......
祝你找到good way to handle your family and be happy again.